Pertanyaan Yang Sering Diajukan

Selama aku mendapatkan perawatan medis, baik rawat jalan maupun rawat inap, aku berinteraksi dengan beberapa dokter dan banyak perawat. Dalam interaksi awal denganku, setelah mereka tahu kasusku adalah PPROM, biasanya mereka menanyakan rangkaian pertanyaan yang sama, bahkan dengan urutan yang sama pula:

Ini hamilnya IVF (bayi tabung) ya?

         Bukan. Bayi biasa.

Anak pertama ya?

         Bukan. Anak ketiga.

Anak ketiga? Anak pertama dan keduanya cowok atau cewek?

         Yang pertama cowok, yang kedua cewek.

Oh… mereka sehat?

         Ya, sehat. Cakep-cakep dan pintar-pintar juga.

[awkward silent]

Begitu aku di rawat cukup lama di rumah sakit, para perawat yang sudah tahu tentang dua anakku biasanya akan menanyakan pertanyaan seperti ini:

Anak-anaknya umur berapa, Bu?

Yang gede mau 5 tahun, yang kecil mau 3 tahun.

Oh, masih kecil-kecil ya… Di rumah sama siapa dong, Bu?

         Sama babysitternya.


Dan akhirnya, mereka akan bertanya:

Anak-anak kok nggak pernah nengok ke sini? Saya ga pernah lihat…

Udah datang waktu itu. Seminggu sekali lah. Kan mereka sekolah. Lagipula gapapa ga datang juga. Kan ada videocall…

Whatsapp videocall dengan Adek Jackie. Ia menunjukkan gerakan balet yang baru saja dipelajarinya di RockStar Gym. Selain videocall, kami juga menggunakan Whatsapp voice message.

Atau jawaban alternatif lainnya:

Udah datang waktu itu. Seminggu sekali lah. Kan mereka sekolah. Lagipula suami saya ga terlalu suka kalau mereka datang sering-sering atau terlalu lama, soalnya saya pasti kecapean setiap kali mereka habis berkunjung. Mereka loncat sana-sini, bikin saya kuatir mereka cedera… Saya sibuk teriak-teriak ke mereka atau ke suami saya untuk hati-hati, jadinya saya kecapean sendiri…

Anak-anak bermain bersama Bapaknya agar tidak ‘mengganggu’ ibunya di tempat tidur, 11 September 2018

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